Philemon 1:11–25
This little letter is so filled with emotion that when we notice, we can’t help but be moved by it. There were no guarantees that things would have a happy ending. By law, Onesimus could have been put to death. In fact, his death would have been expected and almost required by Roman law and culture. Paul and especially Onesimus were taking a huge risk. While it is not possible to adequately address all the fascinating nuances we might like, we do need to notice there are three themes that we can emulate in our lives.
First is setting aside privilege to accomplish purpose. When it comes to Christian credentials, no one stands taller than Paul. In 2 Corinthians 11 and Philippians 3, Paul points out his pedigree to those who would challenge his apostolic authority. But here he sets aside any reference or indication of his unique privileged calling and position. He did this so that the reunion of Onesimus and Philemon would be one of grace and love and not coercion and force.
Second, Paul appeals to the brotherhood of believers. It is as if Paul says, “If you believe that I am your brother, then Onesimus, my brother, is your brother as well.” Paul does not demand Onesimus must be accepted back and forgiven. And he certainly doesn’t call for his being set free. But he does ask that he be received as a brother. In too many of our faith relationships, the bond we have is so shallow and thin that the least little thing will break it. Paul wants a bond between these two believers, and ideally between all believers, that is so strong that the strongest non-Christian bond is pale in comparison.
The third pattern we see in Paul that we need to express in our lives is that of personal involvement. We often prefer very shallow relationships so that others don’t make demands on us. We would prefer to give a beggar a few coins in answer to the cardboard request than to work in a homeless shelter. This approach does not demand much from us but makes us feel good about ourselves. Paul, on the other hand, gets neck-deep involved in this messy affair between Philemon and Onesimus. Paul even offers to pay any debt Onesimus may have incurred. Where is a poor traveling evangelist and occasional prisoner like Paul going to get the money? Perhaps he would sell himself into slavery to Philemon. For Paul, Christianity was never a call to detached expressions or thoughts but was deeply personal and intimately involved.
“Lord, help me to live a deep and strong relationship with my brothers and sisters in Christ. AMEN”