Job 10:1-22
It isn't difficult to see why Job’s friends are offended at his speeches. If we heard the word of chapter 10 on YouTube from an atheist, we would likely be distressed. There is a great lesson for us in verse 1, where Job is pouring out his emotions. When we hear a rant or an aggressive proclamation of an atheist today, we need to consider the backstory and emotions behind the words.
Emotions, for all their value, are seriously unreliable, and they rarely offer good guidance. Demonic powers can and will manipulate how we feel. How many times have people justified their flirtations and affairs by saying, "It feels right"? While our culture tells us that we need to fully vent our emotions and “let it out," that may not be an effective response to our pain. The best response is somewhere between denial of emotions and letting them run wild.
Job brings three emotional outbursts that, to be honest, are harsh and scandalous. First, in vs. 1-7, Job claims that God is no better than man. He says that God, with the perception or eyes of a man, is looking for any excuse to be vindictive. In verses 8-17 Job claims that God built him up or made him for no purpose other than to pull him down. In verse 15 he specifically claims that if he has sinned, then he deserves his misery, and even if he is innocent, he can’t stand up for himself. Rather, he is overwhelmed with disgrace and misery. To stand up in his innocence is an invitation to be hunted. Finally, in v 18-22, he claims it would have been better if he had died as an infant. To say "It would be better if I had never been born" does not sound too harsh to us, but in fact, he is saying that God made a mistake. He was saying that God was wrong in giving him life. In the second line of verse 29, Job is saying life is better without God.
When faced with these kinds of brash, harsh, and reviling statements toward God, we need to realize God exists and that we don't need to defend God and that we can’t reason a person out of an emotional state. For the next 27 chapters Job and his friends argue and reason and accomplish nothing.
"Lord, help me to listen to those in pain with my ears, mind, and heart. AMEN