Song of Solomon 3:1-11
Having spent a night together is the delight of their passion (chapter 2). We see a new development or aspect of the relationship. Many scholars believe verse 1 begins a dream sequence. Her love and passion for her lover are so powerful that they invaded her dream. The dream is a bit of a nightmare. She is looking for her lover. But he is not in bed with her, so she goes looking for him. She finds him and takes him to her childhood home, perhaps a picture of safety, security, and protection.
Verse 5 is a repeat of 2:7 and a reminder that such passionate love can be inconvenient and ought to be postponed until you are ready. But how could a girl not fall head over heels in love with such a hero as described in verses 6-11? Solomon is the perfect combination of all the masculine traits. There is here a depiction of the arousal within a woman that is pursued by a strong, honorable, and heroic man. This is not toxic nor effeminate masculinity but heroic masculinity.
“Lord, raise up men that are models of heroic masculinity. AMEN.”