Proverbs 23:19-22

Proverbs 23:19-22

There is for us in this section, a fascinating contrast that would be well-heeded by those in leadership positions. It is a contrast that might actually surprise us. It is the contrast between self-indulgence and family life. We might expect a contrast between self-indulgence and self-discipline. Or  a contrast between family life and social or business life. But this contrast actually goes to the root of good governance or leadership.

In verses 19 to 21, those who would serve are warned against the life of self-indulgence in food and wine. Followed by an admonition to be faithful to one's parents. In verses 26 and following, there is the warning of self-indulgence again, but it is in this case the matter of sexual gratification. This chapter concludes with another warning about self-indulgence and the use of alcohol.

It is worth noting that a man who is self-indulgent with wine, women, and food is very likely going to be incompetent as a leader at home. But the man who is a quality leader at home will inevitably be a quality leader in any organization or nation.

“Lord, give us leaders who are truly focused on what is good for the family and not their own self-indulgence. AMEN." 

Proverbs 23:1-18

Proverbs 23:1-18

If the 30 sayings of Proverbs 22:17–24:22 are an orientation to life in the royal court, we see something that is missing in much of American political life. To serve in the court of Solomon, a man was trained in both statecraft and personal moral character. In America, from both the left and the right, we have heard the argument that a leader’s character doesn't matter as long as he does a good job with policy. What we see in these sayings is the character does matter, both in personal life and public policy. Here are two examples. First, self-discipline in private life is foundational for leadership in the public eye. Self-control in the pursuit of short-term personal advantages, such as currying favor with a powerful political ruler over a meal (vs. 1-3), is put on par with leading well at home (vs. 13-14). Another example is he temptation to use positions of power to expand wealth, which runs amok in the US Congress and Senate, is warned against in verses 10-11 and is in contrast to the wisdom of verse 12. In any place where we would lead or look for leaders, there must be character and competence. If there isn't both, you don't have a leader.

“Lord, raise up leaders with both skill and moral strength. AMEN”