Tuesday, February 5, 2019

We can’t out-Disney Disney!

As the church we will never be able to out-Disney Disney, but that is not to say that many churches will not try.  This past week in my travels I passed a church that had a large children’s building.  It was the typical big-box, ugly, metal building but was decorated to attract children and likely their families to the church. Emboldened on the building were the words, “iKids Worship, Fun, Games.”  It was less like Disney than a Crazy Ed’s fireworks in Tennessee from 45 years ago.  It is attractional ministry geared for kids.  I have no doubt that the church and the leaders are faithful sincere people and they are motivated by a high commitment to Christ and His Kingdom.  The attractional model of ministry is the template that dominates our churches.  It goes something like this: have a space, put together excellent programing and gathering events, draw a crowd, preach to the crowd, hope the crowd grows, expand and repeat.  It was what I was raised on and taught.  The variation between highly traditional and highly contemporary churches is not that great; it is more a matter of style and preference.   The growth strategy that 60 years ago attracted youth to the church basement for the “World’s Longest Banana Split” (a bunch of ice cream in a rain gutter) is the same strategy that has an arcade, climbing wall or bowling alley in the youth center.  Please do not use the argument of pragmatism, “We can attract more teens with the new stuff.”  If numbers are the matrix I can get more teenage boys with free pizza and wings served by Hooter girls than you can with a climbing wall and have a devotional afterwards. 

Here are three failures of the attractional model for the church:
#1  It is non-biblical.
We need to distinguish between non-biblical and anti-biblical.  For this case non-biblical will mean those things that are neither commanded, nor forbidden, nor even mentioned for the church in the Bible.  Examples of such things would be printed Bibles or even buildings for that matter.  Anti-Biblical things are those specifically forbidden, such as sexual license or suing fellow Christians.  Jesus never commanded His people to go build a facility and then attract people to come.  The great commission is rather specific about the means by which the church fulfills its command.  Non-biblical things are not inherently evil-I believe air conditioned and heated places for worship are good things.  But what we have to a great degree done is completely ignore the Biblical model and rely solely on the non-Biblical, attractional model.

#2  It is non-effective.
In the big picture the attractional model is non-effective.  If the goal of the Christian community is to be salt and light in the world the American church is failing.  I hate to use this term but it is the one that works best: We are losing market share for the hearts and minds of America.  According to the Washington Post it is predicted that the number of people who identify as Christians (just over 250 million) will remain the same for the next 30 years.  During that time people who identify as “no religious affiliation” will nearly double from just over 50 million to over 100 million.[1]  While church attendance numbers are reported to be holding their own it is doing so in a population growing away from the Christian faith.  I personally doubt that attendance is static; my observations convince me that attendance is in decline.  Most of the “growth” that is occurring in the American church is transfer growth.  People move from a church that has air hockey in the youth room to a church that has a climbing wall in the youth building.  The shift is from the church with a music team on stage to a church that has a concert event every week.   The result is the American church is losing its saltiness and is much less the light of the world.  While this may build a few big churches it is pretty bad at reaching the lost, but is best at producing nominal Christians.

#3  It is non-disciple making.  
Finally, the attractional model is not good at making disciples.  If a disciple is a person who loves, follows and lives like their master our churches are not making disciples of Jesus. For a generation we have been spending massive amounts of time, energy, effort, and resources on building these attractional churches.  We should assume that the result would or should be evidence of discipleship.  The evidence points in the opposite direction.  The use of porn by Christian men mirrors the national average and the use of porn by Christian women is actually higher than the national average for women.[2]  The divorce rate for nominal Christians is about 20% above the national average.[3]  If you compare the states with the highest numbers of churches and the churches with the highest number of out-of-wedlock births you find that the Bible belt is also the Un-wed mother belt.[4]  In fact, no state in the Bible belt is in the bottom half of the nation in the rate of out-of-wedlock births.  Perhaps to attract people to our weekend services we have offered a cheap grace.  We have enough of the Bible to preach against porn, divorce and sexual promiscuity, but not enough discipleship to avoid participation.

I do not have all the answers; I may not have even one answer.  But I do know that denial is never a good solution.  But pretending that if we were able to out-Disney Disney and draw larger crowds we can fulfill the great commission is simply denial. 

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